Just Engaged? How to Choose the Right Wedding Photographer

Newly engaged and overwhelmed by wedding photography choices? Here’s what actually matters when choosing the right photographer - without pressure, awkward posing, or stress.

Congratulations — you’re engaged.

That’s the big news. Everything else can wait a moment.

Once the excitement settles, most newly engaged couples start searching for a London wedding photographer and quickly realise how overwhelming it can feel. Everyone’s photos look great. Everyone says they’re “relaxed” and “natural”.

So how do you actually choose the right photographer for your wedding?

Here’s what genuinely matters — and what doesn’t.

You’re Not Hiring Photos. You’re Hiring a Person.

Your wedding photographer will be with you for most of the day — during nerves, emotional moments, and everything in between.

Feeling comfortable with them matters more than any single image.

When you’re browsing wedding photography websites, ask yourself:

  • Do they sound calm and approachable?

  • Do they explain things clearly?

  • Can you imagine them fitting in naturally on your day?


Great wedding photography starts with trust.

two grooms sitting holding hands
two grooms sitting holding hands

Natural Wedding Photos Don’t Happen by Accident

Most couples want natural wedding photography - especially if they don’t love being photographed.

That doesn’t mean no guidance. It means:

  • Gentle direction when needed

  • No awkward posing

  • Letting real moments happen


A good photographer knows when to step in and when to disappear.

Full Wedding Galleries Matter More Than Instagram

Instagram shows highlights - not whole wedding days.

Before booking any wedding photographer, always ask to see a full gallery. It shows:

  • Consistency across an entire day

  • How they handle real lighting and weather

  • Whether their style holds up beyond the best moments

Your Wedding Isn’t a Photoshoot

Wedding photography should fit around your day - not take it over.

An experienced photographer keeps things moving calmly, without rushing you or pulling you away constantly.

Clear Communication Beats Fancy Packages

You should always know:

  • What’s included

  • How the day works

  • When you’ll receive your photos


If something feels unclear, trust that feeling.

How Do You Know You’ve Found the Right Wedding Photographer?

Usually, you’ll feel calmer after speaking to them — not more stressed.

That’s when it’s right.

Let’s Make This Easy

If you’re newly engaged and looking for a wedding photographer in London, I offer a free 30-minute consultation.

No pressure. No sales pitch.
Just a relaxed chat to see if we’re a good fit.